Since we were allowed to post freely today I thought I might reflect on what a gift it is to have good friends. As opposed to Why I think Learning Set Notation is Not Only Pointless it Makes My Headache, oh I digress.
Most of us taking this class live in relatively remote areas of Alaska, some of us may not live near family of whom we can depend on for support. In fact, many of us live thousands of miles from our family. What this causes, at least for my family, is an opportunity to find those relationships in people we may not have ever had the chance to meet.
Living in Kodiak these last 6 years, away from family has brought out an ability I didn't even know I had. The ability to form intimate personal relationships with people outside of my family group. As a result my family has found itself in a position where we spend all holidays and even most weekends with those people who bring fulfillment to our lives. We laugh together, cry together support each other both spiritually and physically. They are sometimes the first person we call when we need to vent or share a special moment. We partner in the raising of each others children.
Now, you might think so what no big deal, but we live in military community. Building relationships like this takes time, but here time is not always on our side. We form these relationships knowing that someday, someday maybe soon, this family will move on. Job transfers come all to soon and we must say goodbye to our new found family. The challenge it to remain in touch to fill each other in on as much as we can and to try and maintain the bonds we have created.
Living in Kodiak has forced our family to reach out beyond our own family bonds to accept other people into our lives to fill the holes that are created when we live in Alaska away from our family.
Instructional Unit Atoms and Presentation
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